Are your expectations reasonable or too idealistic? Are there things you enjoy doing or visiting, meeting people with a similar interest to you is a great way of becoming less lonely. Think about what it is that you are actually wanting and needing, what does it look like? Here are some suggestions people have found helpful… Why are you feeling lonely? Chat Now Lonely Some people can spend time with a group of people and feel lonely, others might hardly ever see anyone and feel lonely. This is not failure — the more we can take away the pressure from ourselves of having to try and find someone who likes us in every situation — the more we can begin to realise that being loved by Jesus, and thought important and significant by him is enough for us in some situations to free us to feel okay about time spent alone.